It is Somewhat Complicated

When someone enter into a relationship, we sure hope for a lasting one.We hope to be committed or married rather than having a complicated one. But some relationship, does not always work the way we plan or even want. Feeling may change, for some reason that is not so easy to understand sometimes.

Who wants to have a complicated situation or relationship? Nobody wants to be on a situation that can really drive you crazy sometimes or most of the time.

We can be just friends or we can be lovers, we can be married,single or divorce. But most of the time it is Complicated or not sure where we stand how it is doing at the moment!

Like one moment it is doing well and then the next day, it is not. Lovers put complications into their relationship, instead of trying to work it smoothly. And sometime, it is really just like that! The moment we say it is complicated, we know already something is not right. I don’t know why we all hang on to something we know were better off letting go, it must be because of what we call LOVE, complicated but still hoping!

You should have plans, focus and driven to what you really want in your relationship. It is not all about having fun, it is about wanting for it to work out in way you both want, or else it will get boring. It gets tiring, boring and it does not feel good. And we say because we love a person we just accept as it is, but we should not. We just have to say how we feel and when we feel it. The relationship is not about just the other person, it is also about you, it is about your relationship. Saying how you exactly feel will either make or break but not saying anything will not do any good as well. It is like having a candy but not liking how it taste.

What might be complicated for us, might not be to our partners, so it is best to open up on how you feel about things. We do not want to create our own ghost and be afraid. Never complicate things that are not really complicated.

It can get boring sometimes if we do same thing in our relationship, there should be changes and what they call the next level. However, we are sometimes scared of changes,especially when it comes to what we call “stable” relationship already.

But is it really stable, or do we just sit there and watch things happens, hoping for it to change, not realizing that it is actually killing what we hope would Grow into more meaningful relationship.

Some relationship or maybe most relationship goes through tough times. And some survived and some just have to say good bye.

Started from being stable and then the complications arises. You see all the beautiful things, you are in love and you are happy, so why complicate it?

When we get too comfortable with the relationship, we tend to ignore the room for growth, for reason that we feel it is “Good” already.

However, in my opinion, we should always find ways to improved, enhanced what is already there.
Loving is not expecting the other person to be perfect for you but we should also try to add more spice to what we already have. People change, feeling grows or die. Never missed the chance of keeping the love burning. There should always be something to look forward too, esp. if you been with your partner long time.

Make plans, be it simple, be it grant. Keep it alive. Nobody like looking on a blank wall anyways and asking why, what or where? Although we have different ways of showing our love and caring, we should always need to be sure how he/she feels in the relationship. Never assume.

And our common mistakes is not telling how we really feel because we worry that it would hurt him/her. That she will not understand but if we are in a relationship, we should be open to communications. Might not be easy for other because there are some who tries to avoid those kinds of topics.

It is when we feel that our relationship is changing but not for the better,that we should do something right away, for ignoring it might turn our relationship into a “somewhat Complicated.”

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Having the Best of Both Worlds

We try to find and build a good relationship. We do our best to
make it work right. However, there are times that even we feel
the fulfillment of having someone, we still try to find someone
else and to have the best of both worlds.

We want the best of both worlds in whatever fields that is, But
we should realize we can have a try a taste of it, but really
cant have both as much as we would like, having both means
having only half of each world.

While having a relationship with someone else can fill up what
is empty but that does not mean doing it can complete you.
Having both world does not complete a person, can be satisfied
for awhile but sooner or later you have to choose one, to be
really happy.

Choosing to have both worlds, can ruin any good relationship and
what you work hard for at the start.

Have what makes you really happy and have someone fills
your heart and soul and not just someone satisfy your
body. While it can boost your ego, you will soon realize that all is
left is your ego and your heart feels empty and everything is
wrong.

So why not just choose just having one, even if you can have
lots,because the bottom line could be not having anyone, REAL!

The best of both worlds is so inviting but would you choose
having both or be happy with what you have right now!!!

Long Distance Love Affair

Long distance relationship has been there for ages. Some work
just fine and some did not. In our modern times, with all the
new ways of communicating, can really love last and blossom
into more meaningful and lasting one.

Are there more chances now? How do you build a stronger
foundation without being physically together. What about the
longing for embrace and having someone closer, can it really
work without the human touch.

With the heart connection, love over the net, phone calls,
email and chat and the visit from time to time. Your heart
filled with gladness when he calls, but then you feel sad once
he hang up and wonder what is next.

Spent every minute of every moment on every visit, making up
for all the lost times and then it is a sad and teary good bye
when it is parting time, reality bites.

Roses and chocolates that filled with love and kisses you
received on some occasions…when roses dies and chocolates
melted, then you long for him to be closer and misses him more
and wonder how long the waiting will be?

You make plans, promises to make it work, but then the longing
is getting stronger. You say you trust each other, but then you sometimes wonder, who he might be with at this very moment. You are with your male friend and you wish you are with him, sharing the things, the laughter and time with him and sad part is, it is not possible at this time…..

Oh well, if you have choosen him and you love him…you are willing to take the risk, than never to try at all!

Not really matter if you are not together right now, because

there will be time when there will be no goodbyes…It is really not how far or how close you are from each other, but it is the love that you feel for each other that matters, the trust, honesty, faithfulness and the never ending hope of making your Long Distance Love Affair last!!!

cheers

Rekindle the Fire


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It is always wonderful to have somebody but after sometime of being with our partner, we very often overlook that there’s more than just having someone.

We quite often shed the enchantment within the relationship, the love and the fire which use to be there, probably simply because we get too at ease with the relationship, we get way too occupied or we’re feeling that it will not inspire him/her any longer, that is “in which we’re wrong more often than not.” We always have to put in a little spice within our relationship, dating and having time for each other. A surprise date, not only to win over your second half but to discover that enjoyment once again.

Take into consideration what she/he enjoys which you have not accomplished for very long time, simply because got so occupied and you will be surprised, just how much it could mean and what you have already for each other.

Speaking about that old great moments with each other will be wonderful, never ever feel they’re uninteresting, you can always look back again and just have a good laugh at it, nevertheless great to remember alongside one another.

Never ever allow romantic relationship get cold and do not let your lover feel undesirable. What you could not say in words, you could convey it by means of actions. Embrace and kisses can warm a cold body and soul.

Staying sweet and considerate with our companion wants is essential. Do things that you use to do for her/him, things that used to make her smile and things that used to lead him to feel great.

Regardless of how long we have been in the romantic relationship, things must not change or get cold, rather keep it going discover more ways in order to build-up the emotions and passion for each other.

For a lasting romantic relationship, we need to continually find time of getting together with the person we adore. You only need to revive the fire and have the spark once again.

Rekindle The Fire

Loving Someone Who Used to Love You

It is a wonderful feeling having someone that you really love, someone who can always make you feel special in anything and almost everything you do!

And the worst feeling is that when things change….

Sometimes it gets to late before we realize how important that person is into our lives and how much he/she means to you.

All you can do is sigh and you wish you can turn back time, just to make it right…This time

It is a sad truth when you start  Loving Someone That Used to Love You.

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