Why go to Church?

Faith in God

I want to share this from the Heart!

If you’re spiritually alive, you’re going to love this!

If you’re spiritually dead, you won’t want to read it.

If you’re spiritually curious, there is still hope!

Why Go To Church?

A Church goer wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper and complained that it made no sense to go to church every Sunday. “I’ve gone for 30 years now,” he wrote, “and in that time I have heard something like 3,000 sermons. But for the life of me, I can’t remember a single one of them. So, I think I’m wasting my time and the pastors are wasting their time.

This started a real controversy in the “Letters to the Editor” column, much to the delight of the editor. It went on for weeks until someone wrote this clincher:

“I’ve been married for 30 years now. In that time my wife has cooked some 32,000 meals. But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu for a single one of those meals. But I do know this.. They all nourished me and gave me the strength I needed to do my work. If my wife had not given me these meals, I would be physically dead today. Likewise, if I had not gone to church for nourishment, I would be spiritually dead today!” When you are DOWN to nothing…… God is UP to something! Faith sees the invisible, believes the incredible and receives the impossible! Thank God for our physical AND our spiritual nourishment!

I think everyone should read this! 



Best of Both Worlds

Best of Both Worlds

We try to find and build a good relationship. We do our best to
make it work right. However, there are times that even we feel
the fulfillment of having someone, we still try to find someone
else and to have the best of both worlds.

We want the best of both worlds in whatever fields that is, But
we should realize we can have a try a taste of it, but really
cant have both as much as we would like, having both means
having only half of each world.

While having a relationship with someone else can fill up what
is empty but that does not mean doing it can complete you.
Having both world does not complete a person, can be satisfied
for awhile but sooner or later you have to choose one, to be
really happy.

Choosing to have both worlds, can ruin any good relationship and
what you work hard for at the start.

Have what makes you really happy and have someone fills
your heart and soul and not just someone satisfy your
body. While it can boost your ego, you will soon realize that all is
left is your ego and your heart feels empty and everything is

So why not just choose just having one, even if you can have
lots,because the bottom line could be not having anyone, REAL!

The best of both worlds is so inviting but would you choose
having both or be happy with what you have right now!!!

Loving Someone and Wanting Another

Long Distance Love Affair

Missing You

Long distance relationship has been there for ages. Some work
just fine and some did not. In our modern times, with all the
new ways of communicating, can really love last and blossom
into more meaningful and lasting one.

Are there more chances now? How do you build a stronger
foundation without being physically together. What about the
longing for embrace and having someone closer, can it really
work without the human touch.

With the heart connection, love over the net, phone calls,
email and chat and the visit from time to time. Your heart
filled with gladness when he calls, but then you feel sad once
he hang up and wonder what is next.

Spent every minute of every moment on every visit, making up
for all the lost times and then it is a sad and teary good bye
when it is parting time, reality bites.

Missing You

Roses and chocolates that filled with love and kisses you
received on some occasions…when roses dies and chocolates
melted, then you long for him to be closer and misses him more
and wonder how long the waiting will be?

You make plans, promises to make it work, but then the longing
is getting stronger. You say you trust each other, but then you sometimes wonder, who he might be with at this very moment. You are with your male friend and you wish you are with him, sharing the things, the laughter and time with him and sad part is, it is not possible at this time…..

Oh well, if you have choosen him and you love him…you are willing to take the risk, than never to try at all!

Not really matter if you are not together right now, because

there will be time when there will be no goodbyes…It is really not how far or how close you are from each other, but it is the love that you feel for each other that matters, the trust, honesty, faithfulness and the never ending hope of making your Long Distance Love Affair last!!!!

Loving Through the Distance

Letting Go of an Old Flame

Waiting For You

You are finally happy after quite a long time, or you believed you are happy, after all you have gone through. You found the person who really show and provide you with so much love, the attention that you desire.

He fills your life with happiness or maybe you believed he did? But then again an old flames all of a sudden appeared, from nowhere, you do not understand what your reaction is going to be. However, you really feel a little ache within, like some thing is there and never really gone, after very long time of waiting, and following lifetime of hoping he would come back, just to realize that you waited such a long time that you’ve forgotten how it is to truly be happy. Did you ever let go?

You’ve decided to love once again and let your current affair in to your life and you also chose to be happy. But this time sadness fills your heart, you saw your old flame standing in front of you. Those tears falls like rain and also the never ending question why he came back far too late and why he left with out saying good bye before.

But how about those waiting for long years and the never ending question which were never answered. Those sleepless night, those sad occasions and all those time spent alone, wishing you were with each other. Flashback came running through your brain, the many good times spend with your old flame, those light emotions and also the laughter you felt, until he left with no words whatsoever.

So unfair what he did, it hurt so bad, you felt as if you died many times within, you felt so vulnerable and not sure how you made it possible to deal with it.

However, you should understand he is a thing of the past and it will never ever be the same. The pain you are feeling at this time belongs to the past and you’ve got today and the future in front of you.

Never ever waste time looking back again or else you will feel alone forever. If you ever look hard, you will realize he is and will never be the same man you used to love but just an old relationship that no longer the same.

You have this wonderful man that adores you so much, who stood by you whenever you needed someone. Do not risk the chance of losing him over an old flame. Nothing wrong with looking back, remembering an old flame or how it was, but not everything is good to rekindle.

Let the old flame stays and burn with the past and be happy with what and who you have right now. Sometimes we find it hard to let go, because we choose to hold on to some thing or someone that we can no longer have.

We need to realize that some good thing never really last and some words are better left unsaid. Never waste your time trying to figure out what could have been, when we could find a better one than what we used to have.

Never compare an old flame on the one you have right now. For it is better to have the real one rather than still keep hold of that old dreams which you once had.

Let go and be Happy!

Rekindle the Fire


It is always wonderful to have somebody but after sometime of being with our partner, we very often overlook that there’s more than just having someone.

We quite often shed the enchantment within the relationship, the love and the fire which use to be there, probably simply because we get too at ease with the relationship, we get way too occupied or we’re feeling that it will not inspire him/her any longer, that is “in which we’re wrong more often than not.” We always have to put in a little spice within our relationship, dating and having time for each other. A surprise date, not only to win over your second half but to discover that enjoyment once again.

Take into consideration what she/he enjoys which you have not accomplished for very long time, simply because got so occupied and you will be surprised, just how much it could mean and what you have already for each other.

Speaking about that old great moments with each other will be wonderful, never ever feel they’re uninteresting, you can always look back again and just have a good laugh at it, nevertheless great to remember alongside one another.

Never ever allow romantic relationship get cold and do not let your lover feel undesirable. What you could not say in words, you could convey it by means of actions. Embrace and kisses can warm a cold body and soul.

Staying sweet and considerate with our companion wants is essential. Do things that you use to do for her/him, things that used to make her smile and things that used to lead him to feel great.

Regardless of how long we have been in the romantic relationship, things must not change or get cold, rather keep it going discover more ways in order to build-up the emotions and passion for each other.

For a lasting romantic relationship, we need to continually find time of getting together with the person we adore. You only need to revive the fire and have the spark once again.

Rekindle The Fire

Loving Someone Who Used to Love You

It is a wonderful feeling having someone that you really love, someone who can always make you feel special in anything and almost everything you do!

And the worst feeling is that when things change….

Sometimes it gets to late before we realize how important that person is into our lives and how much he/she means to you.

All you can do is sigh and you wish you can turn back time, just to make it right…This time

It is a sad truth when you start  Loving Someone That Used to Love You.

Waiting For You

Black Out on a Sunny Sunday

Sunny Sunday

Black Out…Power is off and this time i heard it will be for 12 hours and it is sunday. This will be unproductive day, or so i thought……

Whew, it is really hot, sweating and all and feels like every movement in out house has stopped.

It not dark, since i just woke up and it is still morning but what else to do,i was thinking, read maybe, it is just 7:30am…but too early to do that….and i want to stay in bed longer, since i am off today.

Ok had breakfast, while my Mom is not also busy, and no tv or computer, except for the cp that is almost low bat. Went to church and then back home, power still off. I should have went to the mall instead.

About to get bored, its almost lunch time…Ok can clean up a little before lunch but sweating, hot even with the windows open.

Ate Lunch, full and I thought of going to the mall, not to waste time being bored and it might be colder there, i thought….it should be ok!

I stayed home instead……When the power is off, you hear the silence everywhere and nobody like it and not even appreciate it at all but it does happen from time to time, that is the reality of life, cant have everything everytime and anytime you want it, which make you just realize things…..Better!

Wow, everybody is here, brothers, nephews, sisters,nieces, the whole family is here and my Mom is making some snacks now, even if it’s almost 4pm, still hot.

Lots of talking, even the cp is not that busy, talking to the kids and everybody is sharing their thoughts…….

Mmmmmmm is it then i realized that Black Out is not so unproductive after all, even if you just stayed at home and feel the heat for awhile.

This is actually the best time to get the right bonding with the family, where everybody is not on the computer or watching tv, while the kids are focusing on the topics and sharing their thoughts. While munching, you get to hear the laughter from time to time. Kids has stopped being busy, we all did, during this time, on what i thought is an unproductive Black OUt Sunday, which turn out to be a fun day, after all!

Oooops since the power is back,after 15 hours, need to run and do some late laundry now……. just checking and sharing my thoughts about this.

I realize, no day is unproductive, it is up to you, how you do it but always good to learn something from it.

See you around!

Welcome To My World!

I have selected the name ladyinrhed because my nickname is rhed and i am a lady, for sure, i just check it few minutes ago.

I want to share my thoughts, my joy, my pain, my hopes and dreams.

I am sure it will not be easy sharing all my thoughts and more, as i have so many but i am positive that it will be fun, as I gather them.

This is not my first time to blog, but it is my first “Here”…and i will try to be more creative and find time, as i get really busy most of the time, making a living….and dealing with the real world and sometimes the battle get really rough, but better to face it and be strong as it comes.

As i lay in bed, it is then all this ideas coming out and i tried to remember them, but they vanished away as i woke up…..

So many things i want to do, but so little time.

Life is more fun when you do the things that you enjoy, rather than going with the flow and then missed the things you should have done. Athough i understand that sometimes, Life itself will not let you, for different reasos there is, but atleast try to make sure, to do atleast what you can.

I Love to write, always have and always will!

I Love to Sing, another best way to deal with emotions and express my self.

I Love nature, The Best

Photography is my passion, i may not be the best, but i take good one for memories.

I Love anything that is colorful, something like rainbow, like my favorite colorful M&Ms. Anything that gives color to life, i find it wonderful. Color it Red or Color it Blue, just purrrrrrfect!

I cant really describe myself in one word but my blogs might be able to help. I try not to find fault on what i see, but to learn what i can and then let the rest go by……….

So please keep reading,while i keep posting and will share more. I will love to hear your thoughts and share your ideas. Nothing to loose but friendship to gain.

Have a great Day Everyone and Welcome to my World!


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